Showing posts with label DAWSON. Show all posts
Showing posts with label DAWSON. Show all posts

Saturday, 9 December 2017

Happy Birthday Great-Grandma!


On Wednesday, 9th December 1891, Dorothy Hawley was born in Codnor, Derbyshire. She was the fifth of the six children of John James Hawley and Elizabeth Waterfall. 








She was the youngest daughter to survive and the youngest child to survive overall after her baby brother Fred was run over by a bus in the blackout during World War II. 







This is the earliest photo I have of her. I suspect that it was taken around the time of her marriage to Robert William Dawson, which happened in September of 1918. 
He would later tell his granddaughter "She had jet black hair".








Just over 15 months after their wedding, on 1st Jan 1920, she gave birth to identical Twins.
Olive was the elder twin and weighed two and a half pounds, then came Edna weighing two pounds. The two tiny newborns slept together, nested in a drawer.


May Queens' Handover 1936
Incoming Queen Appleblossom (Edna) left
Outgoing Queen Anemone (Olive) Right


In January of 1948, aged 57 she became a Grandmother for the first time. She would have three more Granddaughters before the end of 1952.

Seven Great-Grandchildren followed (5 girls and 2 boys) between 1973 and 1986.


I am the sixth of seven Great-Grandchildren and the last that she would meet personally.
This was the day we first met at Edna and Douglas' house 22nd Jan 1983.
She was 91.

She died on Wednesday 1st May 1985
in Mountsorrel, Leicestershire (where Olive lived), at the age of 93.
Edna passed away that Friday, aged 65.


Her descendants today include 
one more Great-Grand-daughter,
9 Great-Great-Grandsons
and 6 Great-Great-Granddaughters.



Happy 126th Birthday Grandma Hawley

Tuesday, 26 September 2017

Just 28 Days (on time and DNA testing)

We're finally really getting down to doing our DNA testing. I can hardly believe the thing we've talked of for so long (especially for himself and his Italian side) is actually happening.

In the end, we decided that the best one for us at this time is the My Heritage kit (which is currently on special offer as it happens). We got a fantastic deal and the test is beautifully low-tech in that it's a really simple cheek swab.

Should you have an opportunity to try one, I highly recommend it. I think most of us have had those times where a place or activity has been somehow familiar and then we've later gone on to find that we had ancestors in that place or doing that activity. It's like it resonates with something deep within us. Stating my bias here, I'm extremely interested in the notion of collective/generational memory. I also highly recommend reading some of the scientific investigations around it if you're interested too. They're an absolutely riveting read.

It was very peculiar to sit there last night, watching a digital clock display on the computer counting off the seconds to one minute either side, rolling that swab around.
Of course there's nothing to see and very little sensation - it's a bit like if you've ever had a piece of cotton wool brush against the inside of your cheek, but it's a strange and oddly confronting thing to sit and think 'what would even my grandparents think of this?'
We are in an age of more scientific privilege than ever before and progress is so swift. Isn't it frightening to think that there are now University graduates who couldn't, without help tell you what the relationship is between a cassette tape and a pencil?!
...these are just a few of the thoughts that raced through my head while performing my test.

It was such a small thing and a large thing at the same time. Stupidly, I felt a little under-dressed for the occasion sat at my desk in sweater and jeans. Though for the life of me, I couldn't tell you what would have felt more appropriate. As though somehow, magically, it might improve the test I also felt as though I should be thinking 'good thoughts' of all my ancestors (though truly, I haven't yet found an ancestor I haven't at least fallen for a little bit). It's a huge responsibility in some ways too. I found myself thinking: "What if my DNA's broken, or damaged? What if there's not enough of it? What if it doesn't carry enough information to be worthwhile?" I had to give myself a stern talking to on that and as with this blog, I called to mind the future ghost of some downward descendant who's often with me when I'm tracking our family's history and remember that as much as genealogy is a pursuit for one's own edification and pleasure, potentially some point down the track, it may also prove to be a tiny treasure for those who come after, particularly for those of us who bridge the gap between the analogue and digital eras.

Now there's just that four weeks wait for results. That in itself is an odd thing. In today's world it seems like such a long time, and yet, four short weeks ago from today I was back to work following time off for our wedding (separate post on that sometime soon. You've probably noticed it takes me a while to get the words to come together) and four weeks from now it will almost be Samhain and the Celtic New Year, which is one of my most favourite holidays in the world.
I'm also remembering back to childhood. There was a book that used to be put out (by Royal mail I think) that covered all kinds of interesting and educational activities that, if you liked the look of them, you could send 28p and however many stamps and in "just 28 days" you'd receive a parcel - honest-to-goodness exciting post. That time just used to seem to fly by, so I think I'm going to have to remind myself that it's "just 28 days" and contain my soul in patience. After his and my results arrive we have to do it all over again for the other members of our family who've kindly agreed to test as well.

I'm excited with the potential learning opportunities from this experience. On my father's side, my cousin has kindly agreed to test, which is lovely as we are sadly low on males to test on our Laity side now. I'm aware of other males who have tested up our common lines, particularly the Spencer/Spencer-Churchill side & I believe there is someone out there who tested some Hobbins Men also. On my mother's side, my two second cousins have agreed to test with me. This will be interesting for all of us as their maternal grandmother and my maternal grandmother (Olive and Edna Dawson respectively) were identical twins, so we're expecting that between us, we may have some very interesting results.


Have you done any DNA testing? What was your experience like?

Friday, 4 March 2016

March Relative Focus - My Maternal Grandfather

The one thing I'm suddenly realising about the writing challenge, is that there are so many to choose from. 

Ah. Yes, in fact a quick bit of tomfoolery with the calculator reveals that were I to never add another relative to the tree (yeah, like that's ever going to happen!) and simply tell about one relative at a time, it would take us from now until mid November of 2101.

...at which point, I'd be rapidly approaching 119 and we'd all be sick to death of the whole thing!


I might then, broaden the 'Write about at least one relative a month' and see where it leads us.


March though, in my mind, is always the month that 'belongs' to my Maternal Grandfather.



This is Grandad in August 1986 at his home in Darnall, Sheffield (that's me walking up the backs of my Uncle and Father - by request I hasten to add!). 





There are several key dates for him that fall in March:


                   4th - Got Engaged (1945)

                   7th - His Death (1992)

                   30th - His Birthday (1916) 
       Meaning he would have been 100 this year!





So yes, today is the 71st Anniversary of Grandad's engagement which fell on Sunday, 4th March 1945 - just 65 days before VE day.


In recent months, I inherited Grandma's engagement ring from my Mum . It's been more emotionally intense than I anticipated having it. Grandma died when I was only 28 months old, so a lot of my memories of her include her hands (sometimes, even more than her face) and it can be oddly peculiar, but at the same time nice, to catch sight of my own hands and be flooded with a memory.

You can bet your life I've been wearing it today!


Grandma's & My Engagement rings.

Nails courtesy of my lovely friend Trish:
https://trishmarickovich.jamberry.com/us/en/shop/products/butterfly-bliss#.Vtn6GH2LTcs

...and a slightly closer one that shows the detail a little more clearly (apologies for it being slightly blurry:









This family group shot is circa 1942.

Grandad is on the right hand end of the back row and Grandma is on the Right hand end of the front row.

Also pictured, from Left to right are:
Back Row 
My Great Aunt (Grandma's Twin), My Maternal Great Grandfather - Robert William DAWSON
Front Row
My Maternal Great Grandmother - Dorothy HAWLEY, Robert's sister Florrie WARD





Grandad made a very beautiful entry in his diary for 4th March 1945 describing the evening as "the best night of my life", describing how they went for a walk together and he asked her (he'd already spoken with her Dad)  and how happy her saying yes made him. After, they'd returned to her house for tea and her parents were there, together with her twin sister and various relatives.

They went on to marry on September 8th of the same year at Burngreave Congregational Church.